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Lawsuit of the Day: Filmmakers Say “Happy...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/0769b8ab4d4bbb6134d4c6569713fa7e/tumblr_mok1lizCEi1qzpwi0o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://thedailywhat.tumblr.com/post/53227412849/lawsuit-of-the-day-filmmakers-say-happy" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;thedailywhat&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;h2 class="pull-left title editable" data-edit-key="Title"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;Lawsuit of the Day: Filmmakers Say “Happy Birthday” is in Public Domain, Sues Warner for Collecting Royalties&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h2&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;For more than two decades, filmmakers and video producers have paid Warner/Chappell Music licensing fees to use the “Happy Birthday” song. And for many years, the American music publishing company has claimed that the intellectual property rights to the song will remain privately owned until 2030—but maybe not for long. The filmmakers behind an upcoming documentary, tentatively titled “Happy Birthday,” has filed a lawsuit against Warner/Chappell with a huge body of evidence supporting that the the song has actually been in the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;public domain&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt; since the 1920s. If ruled in their favor, the music may have to return the hundreds of millions they’ve improperly charged in licensing fees since.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53333941783</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53333941783</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 00:08:22 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>J’aime les “clarifications” ;-)</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/aea713499c2297d8cbfd7e4b71f33233/tumblr_mmeju4GJsp1qaevvdo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;J’aime les “clarifications” ;-)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53333552275</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53333552275</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jun 2013 00:02:29 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/31635bd74425abb3de0885165f759f82/tumblr_mol467i0LY1qjqzoeo4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/4a4e5d2ec210e0781d6b3ea64bf31c18/tumblr_mol467i0LY1qjqzoeo5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/4f64857cba10fa1dc2e0d94ca4e7c2c0/tumblr_mol467i0LY1qjqzoeo6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e9b05542af9b1b52eea4baaad9acee03/tumblr_mol467i0LY1qjqzoeo1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7f8a7cdf34b4bc064dca78df1d34991c/tumblr_mol467i0LY1qjqzoeo2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1a6c53b611e12da3f33f0315a7a1343e/tumblr_mol467i0LY1qjqzoeo7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/09646ced22afcfb1dc2e60643f1a4df5/tumblr_mol467i0LY1qjqzoeo8_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/7c080736ab862c42ec9c29a306440517/tumblr_mol467i0LY1qjqzoeo3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53331463332</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53331463332</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 23:31:11 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>tardisblue-alphared:

im crying because did disney miss the part...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/125cd002caa071feb227f8c736c5a595/tumblr_mmxmj9eVzC1qc8jh0o1_500.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/0a67b52d92ac66022f25b97ec7305333/tumblr_mmxmj9eVzC1qc8jh0o2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/6a028e8f9bc8dd8ce935ef79d4fcc1a8/tumblr_mmxmj9eVzC1qc8jh0o3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/cfda1ecca2d55dd943fbf200958637e9/tumblr_mmxmj9eVzC1qc8jh0o4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d12a520e3a9f0a85a3960bc5013005f5/tumblr_mmxmj9eVzC1qc8jh0o6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/5bcec937cd10bd73e76582291465aa71/tumblr_mmxmj9eVzC1qc8jh0o5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1b927c3721535c1301bd952e483f8314/tumblr_mmxmj9eVzC1qc8jh0o7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://tardisblue-alphared.tumblr.com/post/50650754779/im-crying-because-did-disney-miss-the-part-where"&gt;tardisblue-alphared&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;im crying because did disney miss the part where she DIDNT WANT TO DRESS UP FOR THE CEREMONY IN THE MOVIE? NO? OK WERE GONNA IGNORE THAT.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53206946839</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53206946839</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 13:33:19 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>canisfamiliaris:

The Effect of Feminism on Husbands</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/26dd72645348d675c80e5f477d94eda2/tumblr_mog3z6bgrR1qzk44io1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://canisfamiliaris.tumblr.com/post/53036880768/the-effect-of-feminism-on-husbands" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;canisfamiliaris&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Effect of Feminism on Husbands&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53075247693</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53075247693</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 23:47:42 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>mooretoons:

Max WeberMax Weber is the subject of this...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/424b94dba0768ddee1c6ccdf8cefb3fc/tumblr_mogb41tc681qgr491o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://mooretoons.tumblr.com/post/53046823897/max-weber-max-weber-is-the-subject-of-this" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;mooretoons&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;big&gt;Max Weber&lt;/big&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;Max Weber is the subject of this contribution to the Cranky Sociologists blog. Along with Emile…&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://mooretoons.com/2013/06/15/max-weber/"&gt;View Post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53074924464</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/53074924464</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 23:42:54 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"Femininity is depicted as weakness, the sapping of strength, yet masculinity is so fragile that..."</title><description>“Femininity is depicted as weakness, the sapping of strength, yet masculinity is so fragile that apparently even the slightest brush with the feminine destroys it.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Gwen Sharp in &lt;a href="http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2012/08/21/policing-masculinity-in-slim-jims-spice-loss-ads/"&gt;Policing Mascuility in Slim Jim’s “Spice Loss” Ads&lt;/a&gt; (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://queerblackandproud.tumblr.com/"&gt;queerblackandproud&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52918105438</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52918105438</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 22:55:34 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"…linguistic relations are always relations of power… and, consequently, cannot be elucidated within..."</title><description>“…linguistic relations are always relations of power… and, consequently, cannot be elucidated within the compass of linguistic analysis alone. Even the simplest linguistic exchange brings into play a complex and ramifying web of historical power relations between the speaker, endowed with a specific social authority, and an audience, which recognizes this authority to varying degrees, as well as between the groups to which they respectively belong.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Pierre Bourdieu quoted in L.D.Wacquant, ‘Towards a Reflexive Sociology: A Workshop with Pierre Bourdieu,’ &lt;em&gt;Sociological Theory&lt;/em&gt;, vol. 7 (1989), p. 47 (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://gloomy-planets.tumblr.com/"&gt;gloomy-planets&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52917777518</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52917777518</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 22:50:56 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>superqueerartsyblog:

a shortie about what I think should be...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e2df5007dde84c4f1bf7ec2950f97a26/tumblr_mnh3fkM4Jl1qkivpqo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://superqueerartsyblog.tumblr.com/post/51497077912/a-shortie-about-what-i-think-should-be-improved"&gt;superqueerartsyblog&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;a shortie about what I think should be improved when it comes to Pride festivals… &lt;span&gt;visibility for everyone sure would be nice!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52917082590</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52917082590</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 22:41:10 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c78a2adaef1e8a8d6c1e5a2b2c0bc69e/tumblr_mo54v4c5Wu1qzsnxyo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52916739149</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52916739149</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 22:36:22 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>eschergirls:

repair-her-armor:

you-are-bolin submitted:

I was...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/1f7ee9b0aac698cdd35c4e460434b1aa/tumblr_mo75bdHUId1s9p45oo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://eschergirls.tumblr.com/post/52662981451/repair-her-armor-you-are-bolin-submitted-i"&gt;eschergirls&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://repair-her-armor.tumblr.com/post/52655579410/you-are-bolin-submitted-i-was-going-through"&gt;repair-her-armor&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://you-are-bolin.tumblr.com/"&gt;you-are-bolin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt; submitted:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I was going through some comic archives and came across this. Thought instantly of this blog :)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Source: &lt;a href="http://www.escapistmagazine.com/articles/view/comics/critical-miss/8836-Mortal-Kombat"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.escapistmagazine.com/articles/view/comics/critical-miss/8836-Mortal-Kombat"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.escapistmagazine.com/articles/view/comics/critical-miss/8836-Mortal-Kombat"&gt;http://www.escapistmagazine.com/articles/view/comics/critical-miss/8836-Mortal-Kombat&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I choked on my drink. Perfection.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;So that &lt;a href="http://www.fightersgeneration.com/np6/char2/kitana-mk9.jpg"&gt;explains it&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52792285151</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52792285151</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2013 11:09:49 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>silverrabbit:

Stephen on his attempted suicide last year. This...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/2b060ca4af7ad45efa176fddd6933a17/tumblr_mnypxcetr11qll6q0o8_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/367b6e3e374e5e00fae00e72b2f00b16/tumblr_mnypxcetr11qll6q0o7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/06c8e17e1ef4860f8ec8a4dca287ba8c/tumblr_mnypxcetr11qll6q0o6_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/c07c8602115b88e85983ec5aa5ece015/tumblr_mnypxcetr11qll6q0o5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f7497bf8e5c0f5419886798340457b71/tumblr_mnypxcetr11qll6q0o4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/12f7d928a3961f39c4cd15524123854a/tumblr_mnypxcetr11qll6q0o2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a59c6722d113bc8d27a1c78b9de7aceb/tumblr_mnypxcetr11qll6q0o1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a7d6e2863e9e24ab55dc6c20b4507628/tumblr_mnypxcetr11qll6q0o3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://silverrabbit.tumblr.com/post/52288838626/stephen-on-his-attempted-suicide-last-year-this"&gt;silverrabbit&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;small&gt;Stephen on his attempted suicide last year. This is really a very good interview. Go download it. &lt;/small&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52792162451</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52792162451</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2013 11:07:27 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"There are times when radicalism means standing up to the police, but there are many more times where..."</title><description>“There are times when radicalism means standing up to the police, but there are many more times where it means talking to your neighbor.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Naomi Klein (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://liberatingreality.tumblr.com/"&gt;liberatingreality&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52791988288</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52791988288</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2013 11:04:02 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>generalbriefing:

Yep this pretty much covers how history is...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/4632f09d938f493a5fc8f53e183c4a09/tumblr_mnveiyiAEw1qc8jh0o2_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/0348984db24597a1426c9be84019328a/tumblr_mnveiyiAEw1qc8jh0o3_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/f55592d0190fb17ad0ed7de05c3cf0fa/tumblr_mnveiyiAEw1qc8jh0o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://generalbriefing.tumblr.com/post/52148397686/yep-this-pretty-much-covers-how-history-is-taught"&gt;generalbriefing&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Yep this pretty much covers how history is taught here&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52791913268</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52791913268</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2013 11:02:33 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"L’une des raisons pour lesquelles les femmes bavardent traditionellement plus que les hommes réside..."</title><description>“L’une des raisons pour lesquelles les femmes bavardent traditionellement plus que les hommes réside dans le fait que le bavardage est une interaction sociale où les femmes se sentaient à l’aise pour exprimer leurs vraies pensées et émotions. Souvent, plutôt que d’affirmer leur opinion au moment adéquat, les femmes expriment ce qui, à leur avis, fera plaisir à leur interlocuteur. Plus tard, elles bavardent, révélant à ce moment-là leurs véritables pensées. Cette division entre un faux soi-même inventé pour plaire aux autres et un soi-même plus authentique n’a pas besoin d’exister lorsque nous cultivons une estime de nous-même positive.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Bell Hooks, all about love: new visions [Traduit de l’anglais] (via &lt;a href="http://feminissime.tumblr.com/" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;feminissime&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52791374715</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52791374715</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2013 10:51:59 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/03e68a8137db70fdbd5553b482e31f4a/tumblr_moab3jzB1R1qdmsaho1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52791338291</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52791338291</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2013 10:51:14 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/f43963694f56040fba98b8d0ad2fc8b0/tumblr_mnyawx8eQS1qdsiemo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52431725484</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52431725484</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Jun 2013 23:22:08 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"Sociologists who have stopped the time-machine and, with a good deal of conceptual huffing and..."</title><description>“Sociologists who have stopped the time-machine and, with a good deal of conceptual huffing and puffing, have gone down to the engine room to look, tell us that nowhere at all have they been able to locate and classify a class. They can only find a multitude of people with different occupations, incomes, status-hierarchies, and the rest. Of course they are right, since class is not this or that part of the machine, but the &lt;i&gt;way the machine works&lt;/i&gt; once it is set in motion – not this and that interest, but the &lt;i&gt;friction&lt;/i&gt; of interests – the movement itself, the heat, the thundering noise. Class is a social and cultural formation (often finding institutional expression) which cannot be defined abstractly, or in isolation, but only in terms of relationship with other classes; and, ultimately, the definition can only be made in the medium of &lt;i&gt;time&lt;/i&gt; - that is, action and reaction, change and conflict. When we speak of a class we are thinking of a very loosely defined body of people who share the same congeries of interests, social experiences, traditions and value-system, who have a &lt;i&gt;disposition to behave&lt;/i&gt; as a class, to define themselves in their actions and in their consciousness in relation to other groups of people in class ways. But class itself is not a thing, it is a happening.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;E.P. Thompson on class, agency and sociological definition (&lt;a href="http://rhianejones.com/2013/05/05/1994/"&gt;via&lt;/a&gt;). (via &lt;a href="http://the-pamphleteer.tumblr.com/" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;the-pamphleteer&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52430551981</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52430551981</guid><pubDate>Fri, 07 Jun 2013 23:05:35 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"In short, to anyone with dating experience, “nice guy” sounds like “essentially lackluster, if..."</title><description>“In short, to anyone with dating experience, “nice guy” sounds like “essentially lackluster, if largely unobjectionable male person.” And this is what you’re presenting as your best trait. This is what you aspire to. Now, I hear some of you complaining “women always say they want a nice guy.” I know lots of women — I’m even related to a few — and I can’t say I’ve ever heard any of them say that. I can’t prove it, but this sounds like one of those things stand-up comedians say about women and everyone else just repeats. I’ve also never known a woman who cries when she breaks a nail — although I’ve known a few who swear like a 15-year-old sailor in jail — and I’ve never had a woman ask me if her outfit made her look fat unless she actually wanted and subsequently appreciated my opinion. So either I’ve stumbled upon a secret trove of women who aren’t passive-aggressive sob machines, or you need to stop mistaking Dane Cook routines for peer-reviewed sociological studies. At any rate, if a woman does say “I just wish I could find a nice guy,” I would suggest this is the equivalent of “I’m so hungry I could eat a horse.” Which is to say, she’s not hoping you’ll say, “You’re in luck, I have a dead horse in my backyard!” The Sapir-Whorf hypothesis states that the way you use language shapes your perception of the world. (This should not be confused with the Sapir-Worf hypothesis, which states that the Romulans are lying and we should raise shields.) So maybe you’d become a better person if you started by not using such a flaccid, pallid term to refer to yourself. Here’s my suggestion: Instead of trying to be a nice guy, aspire to be a good man. You might be surprised at the results.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.wired.com/underwire/2013/01/alt-text-nice-guy/"&gt;Alt Text: Taking Another Look at the Myth of the ‘Nice Guy’ | Underwire | Wired.com&lt;/a&gt; (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://bulletinaweave.tumblr.com/"&gt;bulletinaweave&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52111011653</link><guid>http://potinsocio.tumblr.com/post/52111011653</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Jun 2013 23:00:49 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>badger-shenanigans:

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;If grandmothers around the world had a rallying cry, it would probably sound something like “You need to eat!”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Photographer &lt;a href="http://www.gabrielegalimberti.com/"&gt;Gabriele Galimberti’s&lt;/a&gt; grandmother said something similar to him before one of his many globetrotting work trips. To ensure he had at least one good meal, she prepared for him a dish of ravioli before he departed on one of his adventures.  &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;“In that occasion I said to my grandma ‘You know, Grandma, there are many other grandmas around the world and most of them are really good cooks,” Galimberti wrote via email. “I’m going to meet them and ask them to cook for me so I can show you that you don’t have to be worried for me and the food that I will eat!’ This is the way my project was born!”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;The project, &lt;a href="http://www.instituteartist.com/filter/riverboom-feature/feature-Delicatessen-With-Love-Riverboom"&gt;“Delicatessen With Love”,&lt;/a&gt; took Galimberti to 58 countries where he photographed grandmothers with both the ingredients and finished signature dishes.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Galimberti said many of the subjects for the project were selected serendipitously, picked while he was working on a project about &lt;a href="http://www.gabrielegalimberti.com/projects/couchsurfing/"&gt;couch surfing&lt;/a&gt; that explored the global phenomenon of staying in other people’s houses. Since Galimberti never slept in hotels while working on the project, he was able to come into contact with people who introduced him to grandmothers in the area.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Galimberti acted as photographer and stylist during each shoot with the grandmothers, taking a portrait of both the women and the food they made for him.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;From top to bottom: &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Inara Runtule, 68, Kekava, Latvia. Silke (herring with potatoes and cottage cheese).&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;Grace Estibero, 82, Mumbai, India. Chicken vindaloo.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Susann Soresen, 81, Homer, Alaska. Moose steak.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Serette Charles, 63, Saint-Jean du Sud, Haiti. Lambi in creole sauce.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;The photographer’s grandmother Marisa Batini, 80, Castiglion Fiorentino, Italy. Swiss chard and ricotta Ravioli with meat sauce.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Normita Sambu Arap, 65, Oltepessi (Masaai Mara), Kenya. Mboga and orgali (white corn polenta with vegetables and goat).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Julia Enaigua, 71, La Paz, Bolivia. Queso Humacha (vegetables and fresh cheese soup).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Fifi Makhmer, 62, Cairo, Egypt. Kuoshry (pasta, rice and legumes pie).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Isolina Perez De Vargas, 83, Mendoza, Argentina. Asado criollo (mixed meats barbecue).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;Bisrat Melake, 60, Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. Enjera with curry and vegetables.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;LOOK HOW PROUD THEY ARE. ;ALDNFA;SLKFJSADF GRANDMAS ARE AWESOME.&lt;/p&gt;
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